Perfectionism—the tendency to demand flawlessness from yourself or others—can often be a positive quality. Perfectionists tend to be highly motivated and ambitious, and thanks to their close attention to detail and their willingness to work long hours, they often excel at school and in the workplace. However, perfectionism also has a downside. In some cases, […]
Continue readingThe Link Between Diet & Depression
You’ve probably heard about the many benefits that nutritious foods can offer for your physical health—for example, eating a healthy diet can strengthen your bones, support your immune system, and lower your risk of developing cancer, heart disease, and various other conditions. But did you know that your diet can also affect your mental health? […]
Continue readingHow to Co-Parent on Birthdays, Holidays & Other Special Occasions
Co-parenting can present obstacles at any time of the year, but it tends to be especially difficult on birthdays, holidays, and other special occasions. Here are a few tips for how to approach your next big event: Decide on a schedule ahead of time. Chances are good that your co-parenting schedule will already be laid […]
Continue readingUnderstanding CBT: What It Is & How It Works
Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) is a type of talk therapy that focuses on identifying inaccurate or negative thinking, viewing difficult situations more clearly, and responding to those situations more effectively. CBT can be administered on an individual basis or in a group setting, and in some cases, it may be combined with another form of […]
Continue reading9 Daily Habits That Can Boost Happiness
Are you struggling to find joy in your everyday life? If so, you’re not alone. Many people have a difficult time achieving happiness, and yet it’s critical for our health and well-being—happiness can reduce stress, lower our blood pressure, improve our cardiovascular health, strengthen our immune systems, and help us sleep better. Some studies show […]
Continue readingDebunking 3 Common Myths About PTSD
When someone lives through a traumatic event, they may begin experiencing symptoms such as anxiety, flashbacks, and nightmares. If these symptoms worsen, interfere with the person’s daily routine, or persist for an extended period of time (months or years), it’s referred to as post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). This mental health condition is quite common—in fact, […]
Continue reading8 Organization Tips for People With ADHD
Attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) is a type of mental disorder that can cause excessive movement and make it difficult for someone to focus and control their impulses. For many people, ADHD can also make it hard to stay organized—deadlines are missed, projects are started but not completed, and piles of clutter make it impossible to find […]
Continue readingThe Link Between Social Media & Infidelity
Social media offers a number of benefits. It can help us feel more connected to our loved ones, introduce us to like-minded individuals who have similar interests, keep us updated on news and current events, and inspire us to try new things, just to name a few. Unfortunately, social media can also make it […]
Continue reading4 Common Types of Depression
Many people are familiar with depression, but only some are aware that there are actually numerous different forms of it. Below, we explore four of the most common types of depression. 1. Major Depressive Disorder For someone to be diagnosed with major depressive disorder, they must have experienced at least five symptoms of depression for […]
Continue reading5 Common Types of OCD
Obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) can cause a person to have recurring, unwanted thoughts and urges (obsessions) and/or repetitively perform certain actions (compulsions). But did you know that there are numerous types of OCD? Below are five of the most common forms of this disorder. 1. Checking OCD This type of OCD causes someone to repeatedly check […]
Continue readingDating After Divorce: Tips for Moving On After Your Breakup
If you’ve gone through a divorce, you’re not alone. According to statistics published by Forbes, about half of first marriages end in divorce, and divorce rates are even higher in second and third marriages. It’s important to not rush back into dating after a divorce. Separating from your spouse can be extremely difficult, and you’ll […]
Continue readingWhat Causes OCD to Flare Up?
You’ve probably heard of obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD), a condition that causes someone to have recurring, unwanted thoughts and urges (obsessions) and/or repetitively perform certain actions (compulsions). But did you know that certain things can cause OCD symptoms to worsen? Here are four potential causes of OCD flare-ups: Stress and anxiety – When someone with OCD […]
Continue reading30 Common Signs of Stress
Stress is a reaction that occurs when someone feels pressured or threatened, and while some amount of stress can energize you and motivate you to complete tasks, too much of it can negatively your mental and physical health. Even if you regularly experience stress, you may be unaware of the numerous ways in which it […]
Continue readingBuilding Better Boundaries in Relationships for Healthy Personal Growth
Let’s talk enmeshment! Many of you may not have encountered this term, yet it might be influential in your life. Knowing what it is and how to navigate it can make a world of difference in your personal growth journey. For those unfamiliar with it, enmeshment can be an unhealthy attachment pattern in […]
Continue readingUnlocking the Power of Trust: Proven Strategies for Fostering Strong Teams and Unshakeable Relationships
As a psychotherapist who specializes in relationships, I’m often asked, “How can we create an environment of trust in our relationships or work teams?” This is a vital question to address, as trust is a transformative ingredient in any relationship—professional or personal. To understand this, let’s explore some tried-and-true strategies for fostering a culture of […]
Continue readingGaslighting: Empowering Antidotes Against Emotional Sabotage in Relationship
This insidious manipulation technique can be devastating, but understanding it is the first step toward empowering yourself and others to counteract its harmful effects. What is Gaslighting? Gaslighting is a toxic manipulation strategy aimed at making a person doubt their perception, memory, or even sanity. The term ‘gaslighting’ was coined from the 1944 movie ‘Gaslight,’ […]
Continue readingWhy You Are Special: A Deep Dive Into the 1 in 400 Quadrillion Odds of Your Existence
Life is a sequence of fleeting moments; sometimes, we forget just how magical and unique our presence on this vast cosmic stage is. Today, we delve into a fascinating statistic: the probability of you, yes, YOU, being alive is 1 in 400 quadrillion. Let’s unwrap this staggering number and explore why embracing this […]
Continue readingMismatched Desires – How Sex Therapy Can Help You Connect
Sex is a powerful way for two people to bond and feel true intimacy with one another. But what happens when one person in the relationship has less of a sex drive than the other person? Are they destined for relationship doom, or can they meet somewhere in the middle? The answer is, plenty of […]
Continue readingWhat Are the 5 Stages of PTSD?
You’ve likely heard of post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), a mental health condition that can cause someone to experience anxiety, flashbacks, nightmares, and other symptoms after living through a traumatic event. But did you know that the mental health community commonly divides PTSD into five stages? They are: Impact – This stage occurs immediately after someone […]
Continue readingHow to Tell Someone Your Boundaries
So, you’ve decided that it’s time to set some boundaries in your life. Good for you! Boundaries are essential to maintaining relationships with friends, family members, and coworkers, as they can help build trust and respect. Once you’ve decided what your boundaries are, the next step will be communicating them to those around you. Here […]
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