You cry too easily. You’re too sensitive. Too dramatic. Too quiet. Too loud. Too needy. Too distant.
And somehow — also not smart enough. Not successful enough. Not chill enough. Not lovable enough. Not enough.
Sound familiar?
If you’ve ever carried the confusing ache of feeling like you’re simultaneously too … Read the rest
Continue readingYou’re not wrong for feeling like you and your partner just… miss each other in conversation. You talk—but don’t feel heard. You listen—but somehow still feel miles apart. Over time, what started as small misfires can solidify into stuck patterns: avoidance, defensiveness, reactivity, or silent distance.
Communication in relationships … Read the rest
Continue readingSurvivor’s guilt is a deeply human, often misunderstood response to living through something that others did not. Whether you walked away from an accident, outlived a loved one, or survived a tragedy that claimed others, the weight of that survival can show up in unexpected ways. It’s not just sadness—it’s … Read the rest
Continue readingLet’s pause here together.
Because, chances are, if you’re reading this, some tender part of you is longing for something it may have never fully received: unconditional love—from yourself.
And that makes so much sense.
We grow up in systems that praise perfection, performative positivity, and people-pleasing. We internalize … Read the rest
Continue reading“It’s like your nervous system is speaking its own language—through twitches, sounds, and movements you didn’t ask for.”
Are you wondering if it’s just a tic or something more like Tourette’s Syndrome? Learn how to recognize, understand, and compassionately respond to your body’s signals. This trauma-informed, neuroscience-backed guide demystifies the … Read the rest
Continue readingIf you’ve ever watched a child crumble after getting a 94%, refuse to raise their hand unless they’re 100% sure of the answer, or panic when their drawing doesn’t match what they imagined—it’s not just high standards. You’re witnessing the intersection of perfectionism and anxiety in kids.
What looks like … Read the rest
Continue readingHow Childhood Trauma Influences Adult Relationships
Childhood is often painted with the idyllic hues of innocence and discovery. Yet, for many, the strokes are darker—filled with experiences that leave emotional scars. These scars may remain hidden, quietly influencing how we connect with others in adulthood. In this … Read the rest
Continue readingThis insidious manipulation technique can be devastating, but understanding it is the first step toward empowering yourself and others to counteract its harmful effects.
Gaslighting is a toxic manipulation strategy aimed at making a person doubt their perception, memory, or even sanity.
Continue readingAgoraphobia is an anxiety disorder that causes someone to excessively worry about leaving an environment that they consider to be safe (in many cases, their home). Oftentimes, individuals with this type of anxiety are concerned that they won’t have help available to them when necessary, or that they won’t be … Read the rest
Continue readingAt some point in our lives, most of us will experience anxiety. It’s actually a natural reaction to many stressors such as starting a new job, taking final exams, and becoming a new parent.
Now for many people, the anxiety will subside once the stressor goes away. But for others, … Read the rest
Continue readingThe holidays are just around the corner, and that means many of us will forego our diets – and common sense – and indulge in a variety of food and spirits. And while it may seem harmless to “live it up” once in a while, drinking too much alcohol can … Read the rest
Continue readingAccording to the National Center for Educational Statistics, one out of every five students reported being bullied in 2019, with slightly more female than male students reporting being a victim. 41% of students who reported being a target said they believed the bullying would continue.
Anti-Bullying Awareness Week occurs each … Read the rest
Continue readingAccording to the TLC Foundation for Body-Focused Repetitive Behaviors, the term body-focused repetitive behavior (BFRB) describes a group of behaviors thought to be related to anxiety disorders, impulse control disorders, and obsessive-compulsive disorder. The behaviors can include hair pulling, skin picking, nail-biting, knuckle cracking, and tooth grinding, to name some.
October is ADHD awareness month, and so I thought this would be the right time to talk about how ADHD affects women specifically. So much research has gone into the effects of ADHD in males, and this has led to boys getting a more accurate diagnosis than girls.
The problem … Read the rest
Continue readingAccording to the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA), roughly two-thirds of adolescents and teens report experiencing at least one traumatic event by the age of 16. Luckily, a qualified therapist can help kids navigate and process their emotions related to the trauma.
When we fall in love with our spouses or partners, we never imagine that someday the honeymoon phase might end. We want to believe those Hollywood romantic comedies that make us believe we will “live happily ever after.”
The truth is, all couples have their fair share of ups and … Read the rest
Continue readingWhen you think about it, modern women are really like superheroes. Not only are they obtaining college degrees and climbing corporate ladders, they’re doing so while also raising families. They may also find themselves taking care of aging parents at the same time.
While some women are able to … Read the rest
Continue readingObsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) refers to a pattern of unwanted thoughts and fears (obsessions) that cause an individual to perform repetitive behaviors (compulsions). These thought patterns and behaviors significantly impact a person’s daily activities and quality of life.
What is Exposure and Response Prevention?
Exposure and response prevention (ERP) is a … Read the rest
Continue readingAt some point in life, most of us have experienced being in a toxic relationship, whether we’re aware of it or not. People of all ages, nationalities and sexual orientations can find themselves in an unhealthy relationship, confused as to how they got there, or perhaps even unsure the situation … Read the rest
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