If self-care feels like a checkbox you keep failing to tick, you’re not alone. In a culture obsessed with “doing better,” even rest becomes performative. But true self-care isn’t a performance—it’s a return—a slow, steady homecoming to your body, your needs, your wholeness.
Let’s explore the six foundational pillars of … Read the rest
Continue readingLet’s slow this down.
You’re not “too much.” You’re not broken. If your chest tightens when you read about a new illness, if you feel a jolt of panic at the mention of a symptom, if you’ve been Googling for hours and still don’t feel calm… that makes so much … Read the rest
Continue readingby Katherine Jewett, LMFT
Let’s be honest: the phrase self-care has gotten a little… overexposed. Somewhere between the bubble baths and the “treat yourself” mantras, we lost the plot. You don’t need another list of basic hygiene … Read the rest
Continue readingBy Katherine Jewett, LMFT
Ever notice that voice in your head that sounds suspiciously like Regina George from Mean Girls or maybe Professor Snape from Harry Potter? Meet your inner critic—the uninvited guest at your mental party who constantly whispers things like, “You’re going to embarrass yourself,” or … Read the rest
Continue readingLife can sometimes feel like a never-ending cycle of routine, responsibilities, and emotional challenges. When we become so consumed by our roles—be it as a parent, partner, or professional—we may lose touch with the parts of ourselves that once brought us joy and fulfillment. This can lead to feelings of … Read the rest
Continue readingThis insidious manipulation technique can be devastating, but understanding it is the first step toward empowering yourself and others to counteract its harmful effects.
What is Gaslighting?
Gaslighting is a toxic manipulation strategy aimed at making a person doubt their perception, memory, or even sanity.
The term ‘gaslighting’ was coined … Read the rest
Continue readingThese days, many people focus on their physical health. But few give much attention, if any, to their mental health.
What does mental health refer to? Mental health describes a person’s overall psychological health and well-being. It has much to do with the way you feel about yourself, your ability … Read the rest
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