“Am I being too much right now—or not enough?”
“Why do I keep second-guessing everything?”
“Everyone else seems so relaxed… is it just me?”
If these thoughts feel familiar, you’re in good company.
In fact, you’re not the problem. You’re a deeply attuned, emotionally invested mother navigating one of the … Read the rest
Continue readingYou just did something kind. Or brilliant. Or brave. And someone notices.
They offer you a warm, genuine compliment—and your insides twist. You smile politely, maybe laugh it off. You change the subject. You deflect.
If you’ve ever wondered why praise feels so uncomfortable or why it’s hard to accept … Read the rest
Continue readingYou’re not broken—you’re just running an old script.
One written to protect you when the world didn’t feel safe. One that made sense then, but keeps you stuck now.
And you’re not alone.
Whether it’s “I always mess things up” or “If I speak up, I’ll lose love,” many of … Read the rest
Continue readingBecause You’re Already Whole—No Plus-One Required.
Let’s pause here together:
Somewhere along the way, society sold us a story. That unless you’re coupled, you’re incomplete. That you’re biding time, missing out, or somehow not really living until someone arrives to “choose you.”
But what if that narrative was never yours … Read the rest
Continue readingDoes the world sometimes feel just a bit too much? Bright lights, loud noises, crowded spaces—like your whole system goes on high alert? If so, you might be among the 15–20% of people known as Highly Sensitive Persons (HSPs). And no, you’re not imagining it—science backs it up.
Let’s … Read the rest
Continue readingLet’s pause here together.
Because, chances are, if you’re reading this, some tender part of you is longing for something it may have never fully received: unconditional love—from yourself.
And that makes so much sense.
We grow up in systems that praise perfection, performative positivity, and people-pleasing. We internalize … Read the rest
Continue readingBy Katherine Jewett, LMFT
Ever notice that voice in your head that sounds suspiciously like Regina George from Mean Girls or maybe Professor Snape from Harry Potter? Meet your inner critic—the uninvited guest at your mental party who constantly whispers things like, “You’re going to embarrass yourself,” or … Read the rest
Continue readingWe live in a society that rewards those with courage and valor. We are taught from a young age that it’s good to face our fears, for doing so is often the catalyst for powerful and lasting change.
And yet, how many of us allow ourselves to be vulnerable?
Think … Read the rest
Continue readingWhat does it mean to have a healthy self-esteem?
Some people think it means you are okay with how you look. Other people think you must accomplish something big in your life to have a good self-esteem.
But the reality is, having a healthy self-esteem means you like and appreciate … Read the rest
Continue readingWhen a loved one is suffering from low self-esteem, it’s hard to know what to say. Naturally you want them to see themselves as you see them. You want them to feel joyful about the reality of who they are, not be mired down in the falsities they insist are … Read the rest
Continue reading“God, you can be so stupid sometimes.”
“Why would he be attracted to YOU?”
“You’re just going to screw this up.”
These are things you would probably never say to another human being unless you’re a real jerk. But how many of us have that inner critic that says these … Read the rest
Continue readingYou’ve probably heard of mindfulness meditation, but what exactly is Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT)? This form of therapy uses mindfulness practices like breathing exercises and meditation to help clients break free of negative thought patterns.
MBCT was first developed to prevent individuals who were struggling with repeating episodes … Read the rest
Continue readingPeople use different coping strategies when dealing with stress and other overwhelming emotions. Some people use substances such as drugs and alcohol, some smoke cigarettes, and some charge a lot of money to their credit card. And then there are those people who take comfort in their favorite foods.
Emotional … Read the rest
Continue readingBreakups are hard, there’s no two-ways about it. The emotional toll is enough to send many women into the fetal position with one hand wrapped around a spoon and the other around a pint of Häagen-Dazs®.
The problem with reaching for comfort foods in times of crisis is that they … Read the rest
Continue reading“Try, try again…”
“Dust yourself off and start all over again…”
“Get right back on that horse…”
These are just some of the common phrases we use to support the idea that trying something after it didn’t go so well the first time is a good idea. And in many … Read the rest
Continue readingWe are born knowing that we are infinitely lovable. Babies and toddlers demand love and attention. They ask to be held, they ask for toys and presents and they feel they deserve them. When we’re very young, we simply somehow just “know” that we are amazing and deserve nothing but … Read the rest
Continue readingYou’re getting sleepy… very sleepy…
…and when you wake up you will cluck like a chicken.
This is what many people think of when they think of hypnosis. But hypnosis is much more than a funny party trick.
Hypnotherapy has been used for centuries. In fact, in ancient times priests … Read the rest
Continue readingSelf-care is complex. Anyone can tell you to do it, but only you can bestow the gift of self-care onto yourself. But before you can begin bestowing, you’ve got to first recognize that you are worthy of caring for yourself as you do others.
How do you do … Read the rest
Continue readingHaving confidence helps individuals achieve greater success in life. When someone believes they can accomplish something, nothing can stop them from reaching that goal.
Equally important, however, is having a healthy self-esteem. Many people believe they can achieve a goal, they just don’t believe they are worth the effort.
Having … Read the rest
Continue readingUnfortunately, being a survivor of trauma or abuse is exceedingly common. According to the National Children’s Alliance, nearly 700,000 children are abused in the U.S. annually. And according to the Center for Disease Control’s 2017 National Intimate Partner and Sexual Violence Survey, nearly 1 in 4 adult women and approximately … Read the rest
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