Mindfulness meditation invites us to meet pain with curiosity, not fear. And as research … Read the rest
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The Body Remembers Chaos: How Childhood Trauma Shapes Adult Anxiety—And How to Heal
What We Carry from Childhood
Have you ever caught yourself reacting to something small—tensing in traffic, shutting down mid-argument, or unraveling when plans change—and wondered, “Why is this so hard for me?”
For many adults, chronic anxiety, emotional flooding, or relational tension aren’t just quirks or overreactions. They’re nervous system … Read the rest
Continue readingWhen Your Partner’s Depression Becomes the Third Person in the Relationship
What happens when your relationship starts to feel like a crowd of three—you, your partner, and their depression?
You’re not imagining it. When your partner has depression, it can start to feel like the relationship is no longer just between two people. The joy that once floated effortlessly between you … Read the rest
Continue readingWhy You Feel Like You’re Too Much and Not Enough (At the Same Time)
You cry too easily. You’re too sensitive. Too dramatic. Too quiet. Too loud. Too needy. Too distant.
And somehow — also not smart enough. Not successful enough. Not chill enough. Not lovable enough. Not enough.
Sound familiar?
If you’ve ever carried the confusing ache of feeling like you’re simultaneously too … Read the rest
Continue readingWhat Is Mindfulness (Really)? A Therapist’s Guide to Making It Work for Your Real Life
Have you ever caught yourself going through the motions, barely aware of what you’re doing? Maybe your body is in the grocery store, but your mind replays that awkward conversation from yesterday. That’s where mindfulness comes in—not as some abstract ideal, but as a practice of coming home to yourself, … Read the rest
Continue readingDear Inner Critic, You’re Canceled: A Guide to Self-Love
By Katherine Jewett, LMFT
Introduction
Ever notice that voice in your head that sounds suspiciously like Regina George from Mean Girls or maybe Professor Snape from Harry Potter? Meet your inner critic—the uninvited guest at your mental party who constantly whispers things like, “You’re going to embarrass yourself,” or … Read the rest
Continue readingThe Perfectionism Trap: How the Pressure to Be Perfect Fuels Anxiety and Depression
by Katherine Jewett, LMFT
Ever spent 20 minutes choosing a font for an email or rearranging the cups in your cabinet until they’re just right? 🙋 You’re not alone. Many of us proudly call ourselves “perfectionists,” often with a nervous laugh. We might even trot it out as … Read the rest
Continue readingLove Under Pressure: How Couples Can Stand Strong Against Depression
Relationships are the bedrock of our lives, offering love, support, and connection. But what happens when one partner is struggling with depression? It can feel like a whirlwind of emotions—loneliness, fear, frustration, and helplessness. If you or your partner are going through something similar, know that you’re not alone. Many … Read the rest
Continue readingThe Healing Power of Touch: Strengthening Relationships and Boosting Mental Health
In a world that often moves too fast, where digital pings outnumber real moments of presence, the simple act of touch can feel like a lost language. But your body still remembers. The nervous system doesn’t forget what it’s like to be held, to be comforted, to feel safe in … Read the rest
Continue readingMental Health Effects of Emotional Abuse
Emotional abuse is not as easy to spot as physical abuse, but oftentimes its effects can be just as traumatic. Emotional abuse can involve a wide range of tactics, including gaslighting, shaming and manipulation. All of these are intended to leave the victim feeling confused, powerless and hopeless.
Typically people … Read the rest
Continue readingWhen is it Time to Ask for Help?
Depression is a complex mental health issue that varies widely between individuals. This is why it can be difficult for some people to recognize what may be a situational discomfort that may pass on its own, and what may be more serious and require professional help.
The Difference Between Mild
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These days, many people focus on their physical health. But few give much attention, if any, to their mental health.
What does mental health refer to? Mental health describes a person’s overall psychological health and well-being. It has much to do with the way you feel about yourself, your ability … Read the rest
Continue readingMental Health Effects of Excessive Screen Time
If we’re honest, most of us would admit we look at some form of digital screen more than we do the face of our friends and loved ones. From our phones to iPad, laptops and flatscreen TVs the size of an entire wall, screen time for most people is definitely … Read the rest
Continue readingSigns you Need to Take a Mental Health Day
Do you ever get up in the morning and wonder if it would be okay for you to take a mental health day? If so, you’re definitely not alone. In fact, research from the American Psychological Association shows that today’s workforce is experiencing job burnout at alarming rates.
What are … Read the rest
Continue readingGive the Gift of Mental Health: 5 Present Ideas
The holidays are just around the corner, and many of us are struggling to come up with gift ideas our friends and family will love. With so many people dealing with stress and anxiety these days over the recession, layoffs and threat of nuclear war, the best gift you can … Read the rest
Continue readingHow Your Self-Esteem Affects Your Mental Health
Having a low self-esteem is something many people of all ages deal with. While a low self-esteem is not considered a mental health condition itself, the way we think about ourselves directly impacts our mental health and overall well-being.
What is Self-Esteem?
Self-esteem refers to the way people feel about … Read the rest
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