What happens when your relationship starts to feel like a crowd of three—you, your partner, and their depression?
You’re not imagining it. When your partner has depression, it can start to feel like the relationship is no longer just between two people. The joy that once floated effortlessly between you … Read the rest
Continue readingBecause You’re Already Whole—No Plus-One Required.
Let’s pause here together:
Somewhere along the way, society sold us a story. That unless you’re coupled, you’re incomplete. That you’re biding time, missing out, or somehow not really living until someone arrives to “choose you.”
But what if that narrative was never yours … Read the rest
Continue readingHave you ever felt numb, anxious, or disconnected during moments that should bring joy? Perhaps you’ve thought, “Why can’t I just enjoy this?” If so, you’re not alone—and these feelings don’t mean something is wrong with you.
Sometimes, difficult experiences from our past—even if we don’t label them as “trauma”—can … Read the rest
Continue readingby Katherine Jewett, LMFT
Let’s be honest: the phrase self-care has gotten a little… overexposed. Somewhere between the bubble baths and the “treat yourself” mantras, we lost the plot. You don’t need another list of basic hygiene … Read the rest
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Ever notice that voice in your head that sounds suspiciously like Regina George from Mean Girls or maybe Professor Snape from Harry Potter? Meet your inner critic—the uninvited guest at your mental party who constantly whispers things like, “You’re going to embarrass yourself,” or … Read the rest
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by Katherine Jewett, LMFT
Ever spent 20 minutes choosing a font for an email or rearranging the cups in your cabinet until they’re just right? 🙋 You’re not alone. Many of us proudly call ourselves “perfectionists,” often with a nervous laugh. We might even trot it out as … Read the rest
Continue readingLife can sometimes feel like a never-ending cycle of routine, responsibilities, and emotional challenges. When we become so consumed by our roles—be it as a parent, partner, or professional—we may lose touch with the parts of ourselves that once brought us joy and fulfillment. This can lead to feelings of … Read the rest
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In our fast-paced society, we often hear about the importance of self-regulation — the ability to manage our own emotions and behaviors. While self-regulation remains crucial, there’s another concept that’s equally vital yet often overlooked: co-regulation. Co-regulation is how we … Read the rest
Continue readingAre you struggling to find joy in your everyday life? If so, you’re not alone. Many people have a difficult time achieving happiness, and yet it’s critical for our health and well-being—happiness can reduce stress, lower our blood pressure, improve our cardiovascular health, strengthen our immune systems, and help us … Read the rest
Continue readingLife is a sequence of fleeting moments; sometimes, we forget just how magical and unique our presence on this vast cosmic stage is.
Today, we delve into a fascinating statistic: the probability of you, yes, YOU, being alive is 1 in 400 quadrillion.
Let’s unwrap this staggering number … Read the rest
Continue readingYou might have heard that happiness is a choice and wondered if that’s actually true. Unfortunately, for some individuals, mental health conditions like depression and bipolar disorder make it difficult for them to feel happy. There can also be several factors outside someone’s control—such as their age, physical health, or … Read the rest
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